We are at a wedding, in China. But it doesn’t look very Chinese. This is a Bai wedding on the shores of Lake Erhai in Yunnan Province. Yunnan is in the far south near Thailand. It is one of the most un-Chinese places in China. In fact, aside from Han Chinese, there are 25 tribes who live here. I got to this wedding by following a truck filled with people.banging on drums and honking on little horns. I didn’t know these people and except for “Ni hao, “which means “hello,” I don’t know a word of Chinese. My translator talked to the groom who invited me to be a guest at his wedding.